Written by neuropsychologist Theresa M. Regan, PhD, CAS, this book explains how social connection actually works—and why it can feel so complex.
Drawing from more than 30 years of clinical experience and over 1,000 autism evaluations in adolescents and adults, Dr. Regan translates research into real-life application.
Inside, you will learn how to:
• Recognize the difference between task-focused and relationship-focused communication
• Strengthen conversational skills without sacrificing authenticity
• Navigate compliments, gratitude, and emotional reciprocity
• Approach conflict without falling into “all good” or “all bad” thinking
• Repair misunderstandings and rebuild trust
This book does not promote masking or changing who you are. Instead, it increases clarity—about your own communication style, about the expectations of others, and about how neurological differences influence interaction.
Whether you are an autistic adult seeking insight, a spouse or partner wanting to strengthen connection, a parent supporting growth, or a clinician working with neurodiverse clients, this book provides structured guidance grounded in compassion.
SCHEDULE AN APPOINTMENT
Dr. Regan offers specialized video consultations tailored for autistic individuals and their family members. These sessions provide valuable insights and guidance on autism-related topics that impact daily life. Clients are welcome to ask Dr. Regan questions and seek her expertise about various topics, such as:
- Calming anxiety and managing stress
- Effective communication strategies
- Repairing and strengthening relationships
- Navigating life in a neurodiverse household
- Developing skills for better organization and productivity
These consultation visits are designed as standalone sessions where clients can gain useful recommendations and strategies to apply independently. While clients may schedule follow-up sessions as needed (e.g., after a few weeks or months), Dr. Regan does not provide ongoing psychotherapy. She does not perform autism evaluations through video visits. In addition, these visits are not suited for individuals in crisis. They are, however, an effective resource for autism-specific advice and support, reaching clients throughout much of the United States.
Dr. Regan CANNOT provide video consultation for individuals in the following states/regions:
-
Alaska
-
California
-
Guam
-
Iowa
-
Hawaii
-
Louisiana
-
Massachusetts
-
Montana
-
New Mexico
-
New York
-
Oregon
-
Countries outside the USA
-
Illinois
Clients in Illinois cannot be seen for consultation secondary to contractual obligations with her employer.
$175/50 min Appointment